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Now, you may ask, what exactly does the #Selfies4School campaign intend to do? The main aim of this campaign is to raise awareness about the issue of sending young girls to school and why educating them is a good idea.This would help prevent early marriages for these girls.
The campaign attempts to connect working professionals across India’s metros to start meaningful discussions around the topic of early marriage. Early child marriage is seen as a predominantly rural problem but if people from the cities feel a connect with this important issue, the higher would be the chances that they use their power to influence peer group conversations as well as call to action to promote the importance of receiving an education.This in turn would decrease the likelihood of early marriages. Also, as I intend to do with this blog post, other people can share their story as well so that people are equally inspired and encouraged to be a part of the campaign.
Let us inspect some facts and data regarding child marriage in India. According to the UNFPA, India has the largest number of child brides in the world. 47% of these girls are married off under the age of 18. These marriages are often performed without the consent of the girls. The worst affected states are Andhra Pradesh, Bihar, Madhya Pradesh, Rajasthan, and Uttar Pradesh. The UNICEF’s Child marriage fact sheet which was published in November 2011 mentioned that 5.8% of girls in the age group 6-17 years in rural areas dropped out of school as they got married. Also, 1 in 3 girls in the developing world is estimated to be married before the age of 18.
Child marriage is a blatant violation of a child’s rights. This has major implications on the freedom and the quality of life that the child would live. Child marriages basically deny the girl children right to health,proper nutrition,freedom from abuse,violence and exploitation. In a way, it also snatches away the innocence of the child, who is forcibly thrown into adulthood at such a tender age.
Education is very crucial in a woman’s life; more so in the Indian context. In a country like ours, where heavy patriarchal practices limit a woman’s life and career prospects, education can be used as an important tool of empowerment.
Women should embrace education as it helps them gain knowledge and awareness of the world they live in.It gives them freedom to make their own life decisions. It also helps them develop their independent thought processes and gain self confidence. More importantly, it equips them with certain skill sets that result in high paying jobs.
The school dropout rate is shockingly high in India, especially for rural areas, but this too has a gendered implication. The girl children are more likely to be pulled out of schools at an early age, due to the patriarchal reasoning that women belong to the private sphere (read home front) and do not need education like the male children. In a society where there are increasing instances of gender related violence and injustices by the day, Indians need to re evaluate the way they look at the girl child and her worth. Numerous efforts are being made to “help” women, but I feel the most important thing we need to focus on is girl children education. Not only does this prevent early marriages, it also helps them gain more socio economic and political status in the society. They end up gaining more decision making power in their own homes and the freedom to participate in the public sphere. If a girl child is allowed to finish her schooling, she is more likely to make smarter decisions in her life. Research has shown that education results in improved health conditions for women since they are well equipped with important information about family planning ,safe sex, healthy maternity ,etc. They are also likely to be better at home management.
Personally, the one word I often associate with education is freedom. Freedom to think ,act and choose a better quality of life. I have recently finished my Masters degree and I believe that this helps me shape my career the way I want to. Being educated means I can do whatever I am passionate about as well as earn money and respect for it! The degrees I hold are not mere pieces of paper, they also affect the politics I believe in and in a way,shape the way I look at the world. Throughout my schooling and college years, I was encouraged to be a rational thinker. I ended up being an independent, open minded and socially responsible human being. Not only that,I learnt tolerance and how to respect difference of opinion. In short,education gave me the right to speak my mind and to justify my stand. I am valued in society and my voice matters.How awesome is that?!
After finishing my B.Tech, I was pretty content with my life and the job I was doing. I soon realized I was not very happy with the work I did,but it paid the bills. So I couldn’t complain. But then,I saw a movie called “The World Unseen” which made me question a lot of things in my life. The film was written and directed by Shamim Sharif and was based in the 1950s South Africa, when Apartheid existed.Racist attacks were a daily occurence then. The protagonist of the story is Miriam and she is a neglected housewife, undervalued by her husband and his family. She meets a woman called Amina, who runs a successful business and is fiercely opinionated and independent. They soon form a romantic attachment and Amina, who is a political lesbian, slowly brings Miriam out of her shell. There are many scenes where Amina encourages Miriam to read poetry and discuss her aspirations and thoughts out loud,without any fear of judgement.
Amina’s character left a deep impression on my mind. She was very educated and had strong ideas of what it meant to break free from tradition and harmful stereotypes about women. She hated racism and homophobic ideas and was an anti Aparthied protestor in the movie. Her thoughts about the pointlessness of hetero normativity and her intense dislike for forced marriages were very progressive indeed. She loved reading and her father(who was well educated and quite cultured) encouraged her life decisions throughout the movie.This character soon became a personal favourite of mine.It was obvious that Amina was able to articulate her viewpoint and ideas in such a coherent manner due to the education she had received.
Meanwhile,I soon realized that I needed to do some quick field switching. I had always wanted to do something meaningful with my life and I figured out that a suitable higher education could easily lead me to my desired work profile. It could offer me opportunities and open up doors for me. I don’t think I could have done so much if I had been married off just after my B.Tech (Which my parents must have been planning.Can’t blame them though.Societal pressure) Things would definitely have been a little different. Realistically speaking, women have to take care of dual responsibilities after their marriages.I guess,it could have been a tad difficult to figure out a different career path than IT. When I think about it,a lot of my recent career decisions would not have been possible.
Thus, you can see why I highly appreciate and value the education I have received throughout my life. And I wish that more and more girls were given the opportunity to learn and grow in life.As the late Nelson Mandela said,
“Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world“
Amen to that.
REFERENCES
1.Berhane-Selaisse, T. 1993. “Research on Early Marriage or Child Marriage in Ethiopia; Summary of Interim Report.” Newsletter of the Inter-African Committee on Traditional Practices Affecting the Health of Women and Children,15(11) ; TUFTS University
2. The Global Partnership to end Child Marriage. 2014 .Girls not Brides.Retrieved from http://www.theelders.org/docs/child-marriage-factsheet.pdf